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SENT TO THE CCO By Ron RIECKEN
By John Krull
TheStatehouseFile.comÂ
INDIANAPOLIS – The controversy regarding comedian Kevin Hart and the Oscars shows that two simple sentences can make a big difference.
The first sentence is: “I was wrong.â€
The second is: “I’m sorry.â€
Hart was supposed to host the Academy Awards. Some old tweets and comedy bits of his, though, became the subject of both attention and criticism.
Critics said the tweets and bits were homophobic.
They were right.
Hart’s jokes were homophobic.
The Oscars’ producers gave Hart a choice – apologize for the jibes or lose the hosting gig.
Hart opted to bow out rather than say he was sorry. He said he didn’t feel the need to apologize because he said he’d dealt with the issue before. But, when the controversy continued to mount, he finally, grudgingly, apologized.
It would have been so much simpler – so much kinder – for Hart to say from the first that he was sorry, that he’d made a mistake and that he’d learned from it.
Our society now is at a turning point. Old attitudes have come under indictment.
This is good.
Much of what we said or believed in the past wasn’t right.
Cruelty isn’t funny. Neither is bigotry or hate.
Coming to understand that, though, often takes time.
Like many guys my age, I passed my adolescence in a state of happy homophobia. Making jokes about gay people was a pastime for my high-school buddies and me.
We didn’t think much of it.
We thought we were making fun of something resembling fictional characters, like those in a comic strip. It never occurred to us that people we went to school with, people that we played sports with, people we hung out with, might be gay.
But they were.
Some of those folks are friends of mine to this day.
There’s only one word to describe how I feel when I think of things they heard me say when we were in high school together.
Ashamed.
But that’s appropriate. I should feel that way. I did and said things of which I should be ashamed.
And shame can be a great teacher.
The reality is no one makes it through life without doing things he or she regrets. Unless we’re determined to cling to ignorance, most of us learn things along the way, including when we have done others wrong.
When we do discover we’ve done something wrong, the decent among us want to atone for it.
A genuine apology is among the most humane and spiritual acts we can perform. Done right, an apology helps heal not just the person to whom wrong has been done but also the person who did the wrong.
The apology, though, must be real. No real apology contains the word “if†or “but.â€
“If†suggests the person who has been harmed might be too sensitive and thus responsible in some way for the harm we have caused her or him. “But,†says there was some justification for hurting another person for no reason.
Both are abdications of personal and moral responsibility.
We human beings do horrible things to each other on a routine basis. Many cannot be undone because some wrongs just cannot be made right.
And we must live with that.
But acts of honest contrition can ease the pain, even if they do not heal the wound inflicted.
That’s what we are called to do now.
In this divided and often anguished world, in this divided and often anguished country, there’s a good way to start easing the anguish and bridging the divide.
That way begins with, “I was wrong.â€
And continues with, “I’m sorry.â€
FOOTNOTE: John Krull is director of Franklin College’s Pulliam School of Journalism, host of “No Limits†WFYI 90.1 Indianapolis and publisher of TheStatehouseFile.com, a news website powered by Franklin College journalism students.
The City-County Observer posted this article without bias or editing.
Katie Stancombe for www.theindianalawyer.com
Accredited law schools could soon be operating under a revised bar passage standard if a proposal recently adopted by the Council of the American Bar Association Section of Legal Education and Admissions to the Bar moves forward.
The council’s adopted proposal revises Standard 316 to require at least 75 percent of a law school’s graduates who sit for a bar examination to pass within two years of their graduation date. The ABA House of Delegates will consider the proposal at its Midyear Meeting on Jan. 28.
The current bar passage standard provides various options for demonstrating compliance with Standard 316, including an “ultimate†bar passage rate of 75 percent over the last five years. According to an ABA news release,  the council contends the current standard is “overly complicated†and that the proposed revisions “will better protect students and the public.â€
A similar proposal was brought before the House of Delegates in February 2017 but was met with opposition and scrutiny. That measure was ultimately rejected.
In the months following the previous proposal’s rejection, the council collected school-by-school data on ultimate bar passage within two years of graduation for graduates of 2015, 2016 and 2017. It also collected more comprehensive data on first-time bar passage rates for recent graduates.
The absence of the revision’s impact on individual schools was a primary reason for the House’s non-concurrence in 2017, the ABA said.
The final decision over the accreditation standards rests with the council, which can move ahead with a change after the House considers it twice.
Deaconess Clinic Dermatology12/11/2018
The arrival of winter usually signals the arrival of dry skin. Anyone can develop dry skin, but the cold climate of the winter months, accompanied by the dry heat indoors, can aggravate the condition. Also, those long, hot showers and baths that feel so good usually end up causing even more problems (more on that below).
As a dermatologist, I see more patients with itching related to dry skin than patients with a rash that itches. Unfortunately, dry skin often leads to having an “itch that rashes.” What I mean by that is dry skin will itch and cause a person to scratch. That scratching leads to a raised, irritated rash that itches and causes more scratching. It’s a vicious cycle.
What causes dry skin?
To help explain why dry skin occurs, it’s helpful to understand the outer skin. Your skin cells are like bricks, and the “mortar” between them is the natural lipid/oils that seal your skin, keeping it soft and supple. Dry skin is the result of these fatty substances being stripped away, allowing the moisture to evaporate. This is often the result of both genetic and environmental factors.
Environmental causes of dry skin:
Products and/or activities that cause dry skin:
Medical conditions and other factors that can aggravate dry skin:
What to do about dry skin?
When to see the doctor
If you have any of the following symptoms, consider a visit to your physician or dermatologist:
Hoping these tips help you have a more comfortable, itch-free winter.
FOOTNOTE: Retired Deaconess Clinic dermatologist Dr. Robert Martin contributed to this article
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I disagree with the event that the EVPL wants to sponsor. I believe there are more suitable ways to teach diversity and tolerance that is related to the LGBTQ community. I voiced my opinion in a non-threatening way without name calling or cursing.
However, others were so quick to spew “hate†and “intolerance†of my views. I wish everyone could voice their beliefs and opinions without fear. I don’t have evil in my heart. I care about my community, and I only want what’s best for it.
Sincerely,
Justin Elpers
Evansville City Council 5th Ward
FOOTNOTE: Yesterday 5th Ward City Councilman Justin Elpers posted a comment on his Facebook concerning Evansville North Park Library allowing Drag Queens to participate in a story hour with children. Â
We just received an e-mail from Mr. Elpers concerning his response to the people who strongly disagree with his statement on this issue.  We have been told around 1,200 people have responded to Mr. Elpers post so far concerning his opinion about the Evansville North Park Library allowing Drag Queens to participate in a story hour with children. Â
The City-County Observer post, Mr. Elpers e-mail to us without editing or opinion.
Junior swimmer Emma Hennessy is one of this week’s featured athletes in the MVC Scholar-Athlete Spotlight, presented by Enterprise Bank and Trust Company, Commissioner Doug Elgin announced today.
To qualify for the Missouri Valley Conference Scholar-Athlete Spotlight, student-athletes must carry a cumulative grade-point average of 3.20, completed at least one academic year at a Valley institution and must be at least a sophomore in academic standing.
Redshirt freshmen and first-year junior college transfers are not eligible. In addition to the academic qualifications, student-athletes are evaluated on their campus involvement and community service.
Hennessy carries a 4.00 GPA as an Athletic Training major as a junior on the Evansville women’s swimming and diving team. Last year, she ranked second on the team in the 50-yard and 100-yard freestyle at 23.83 and 52.73 respectively. On October 27th, Hennessy won the 50 yard freestyle against Little Rock, posting a time of 24.74.
Hennessy is also involved around the Evansville campus and community. She provided educational materials to children at WNIN Evansville Kids’ Fest as well as served as a Student Athletic Trainer for the Evansville Bosse High School football team. She is a member of the Evansville Athletic Training Club as well as the University’s Newman Club.
After getting off to a fast start, the University of Evansville women’s basketball team could not maintain its lead in a 69-30 loss to Dayton on the road Saturday evening in Dayton, Ohio.
Leading the way for Evansville were senior Kerri Gasper and freshman A’Niah Griffin, who each scored nine points on the night. Gasper tied a career-high in the contest, pulling down a game-best 12 boards including eight rebounds in the first half. For the Flyers, Jayla Scaife paced Dayton with 11 points, while Julia Chandler joined Scaife in double-figures with 10 points.
Taking a 2-0 lead before the jump ball due to a scorebook error by Dayton, the Purple Aces took the early advantage and pulled out to a 16-3 lead midway through the first quarter. Dayton responded to close the first period, going on an 11-0 run to cut Evansville’s lead to just two at the conclusion of the first. The Flyers’ run continued in the second quarter as Dayton moved in front, taking a 34-21 lead to the half.
Out of the break, Dayton increased its advantage to 28 at the end of the third quarter at 53-25. In the final stanza, the Flyers led by as many as 40 before ending the contest with the 69-30 win.
Evansville started the contest strong, shooting 5-11 (45.5%) from the field in the opening quarter, but concluded the game shooting 13.6% (6-44) from the field over the final three periods.
The Aces return to action in their final home game of 2018 as Evansville takes on Austin Peay on Tuesday evening at 6:00 p.m. inside Meeks Family Fieldhouse.